How My View on Kobe Bryant Changed Over Time

For reasons I couldn’t fully explain at the time, I used to hate Kobe Bryant as a player. To me, he felt like a carbon copy of Michael Jordan, his mannerisms, his fadeaway jumper, even the way he carried himself on the court. It all seemed too calculated, too rehearsed. I didn’t see authenticity; I saw imitation.

When the Los Angeles Lakers hit their peak, especially after winning their first championship against Allen Iverson and the Philadelphia 76ers in 2001, I’d had enough. That was the moment I decided to boycott the NBA. Extreme? Maybe. But that’s how much I couldn’t stand watching Kobe and the Lakers dominate.

Fast forward to the 2014-2015 season after years away from the game, I found myself drawn back to basketball. Ironically, just as I returned, Kobe’s career was coming to an end. One year later, in 2016, he played his final game.

Here’s where things took an unexpected turn.

In retirement, Kobe Bryant was a completely different person or at least, I started to see a different side of him. Gone was the player I had resented for years. Instead, I saw a man who spoke with wisdom, passion, and an incredible drive to uplift others. His Mamba Mentality wasn’t just about basketball; it was a mindset applicable to life itself.

I found myself drawn to his motivational speeches, the way he mentored younger athletes, and his relentless pursuit of excellence beyond the game. I finally got what so many people admired about him.

Then, on January 26, 2020, tragedy struck.

When Kobe passed away in that devastating helicopter crash, I felt an unexpected sadness. I had only just begun to appreciate him, to understand the man behind the competitor. And just like that, he was gone.

It’s strange how time changes perspectives. A player I once despised became someone I respected deeply not just for his achievements, but for the mindset and values he shared with the world.

Now, I turn the question to you: Have you ever disliked a player early in their career, only to have your feelings change over time? Let me know in the comments I’d love to hear your story.